کچھ کلام تو کر چاہے برساتِ الزام ہی کر
کچھ کھیل تو کھیل چاہے فریب ہی کر
سرے محفل چھیڑ بات ہمارے عشق کی
تعریف نہ سہی، کوئی طنز ہی کر
نا جان لے ہمارے دشمنوں کی، جلا ہی دے
نا مداح بن، سامنے انکے میرا نام ادا ہی کر
نہ مانگ ہمیں ہاتھ پھیلا کر خدا سے
چھپ کر کسی کونے میں، عشق کی فریاد ہی کر
نا بجا ہمارے پیار کی پیاس ظالم
کسی پیاسے پرندے کی خاطر پانی رکھ دیا ہی کر
نا سن میری گذارشیں، نا کر پوری التجا خیامٓ
کوئی اپنی حسرت، کوئی خواہش بیان ہی کر
From Cold Moon to Wolf Moon, From Wolf Moon to Snow Moon . . .
From Drizzling Evening of December to Foggy Night of January to Combo Midnight of February. . .
An every night walk together in Purple Streetlight. . .
Holding hands so softly but with bonding tight. . .
Breathing out cold smoke behaving like a child. . .
Exchanging between Ice-cream after every bite. . .
Hours of stepping together in freezing temperature. . .
Warmth you’ll get more from your Love Knight. . .
In pin drop silence expressions will give million words,
Lips will be quiet but eyes will expose love dynamite. . .
Oh! In all these fantasy moments we spent quality time,
A kiss on your Forehead, I can’t miss O my Sweetest Moonlight . . .
Fantasy is always a dream, an extreme visualization like a vision. A vision that we can set but it is always unachievable. But on the way to achieve our vision we attain maximum of our life goals.
There is no another fantasy land that exists, where we can just go and enjoy but where we are right now, we have to make it fantasy land. For the fantasy life partner it is the same, like the fantasy life and vision. May be we a raw one, we have to give it a final touch. We have to cut the edges in right manner and bring into a desired fantasy shape. We have to give him/her space to adjust, to become nearly equal to fantasy. I said nearly equal to fantasy because we are not creator of universe, we are not God, we are not that Divine Power Who will assume and imagine something and it will happen and will become to existence as same. Our thoughts and imaginations can reach anywhere but in real we are limited in power to bring something in reality. We can dream and dreams can come true but all, cannot get attire of reality. About the person, we wish to be our fantasy life partner is also a human being but not an angel who will follow totally what God has said. He/she has limited flexibility to change, he/she can bend up to a certain angle otherwise bending one degree more can break him/her. It is not a sin to visualize unachievable vision but when it reaches to its maximum possible real shape we must accept it totally.
Coming back, you know what? This cannot happen in our life when we are looking to start together at once. One has to take first step, he or she has to start. He has to mold himself as her fantasy partner, like her dream guy, a visionary man and an imagined person.
I believe there are to ways to reach your destination or to obtain your goal. First one, you prepare yourself, run behind and do everything which can lead you to your destination. For example you get certificate and degrees, check all newspapers and websites for vacancies available, make resume` accordingly and submit them, you get well prepared for interviews and deliver your best in front of panel. You Get a job. Second one, you decide that what you want to be, one profession you choose as your career. Then you work hard to become irreplaceable in that profession, you are then know as expert of your field. What will happen the destination will look for you, instead of looking for job and submitting CVs to different companies, the companies will come to you with offers. Now, it depends on you which way you choose. I’ll definitely go for second one. ( I will write a detailed separate blog on this topic later. )
So, when he will take the first step and will make necessary changes to obtain a fantasy life and fantasy life partner then she will do the same too. And for sure then it will not be he or she but they will gonna live a fantasy life. . .
She is like a rainbow. But she possesses more colors. Colors those glitter more than a rainbow.
Since the years I’m observing her, the colors of her flicker every moment I see. Every succeeding color is much beautiful than last one. Not that last which disappears but it also lasts and adds there to make sparkling combo.
I cherish for all those colors I find in her. Because every color confers me a new happiness deep in my mind, all around my heart and covers my soul.
Starting a topic with an example attracts more attention of the audiences I believe rather than starting direct from the main topic. So, my point is accepting the personality of loved one and his/her qualities and praising a little without missing a day should be our daily routine. We may call it “Daily Love Dose”. We may add this in our daily routine like food. Expressing loving feelings to someone in few words everyday add up health in relationships. It can work in all type of relations. But I must say its application is more important in long distance relationships.
If we are living together, let’s start the day by saying him/her some words of love, care and affection that brings smile on his/her face while starting the day and I am sure it will remain until day ends. In Long distance relationships let’s send her/him a text consisting of few words of care and affection early morning so when she/he wakes up and the first thing she/he faces are those positive words of love and care. It is much important and valuable than a good night message. You know what? Why its important? Because you are not that valuable to someone who sends you a good night message but You are more important to someone than anything or person in this world who sends you a message in the morning and remembers you everyday before thinking about anything because he/she wants to start the day with you. Adding here, in my opinion where it is healthier activity in a relationship but it may leave some positive impacts on our professional life too. How it affects our other matters and part of life positively I will make another blog later. . .
I’m posting this in a new category “Daily Love Dose”. It is quite long post as I had to introduce this topic in this blog. In upcoming posts, I’ll be posting just small messages that we can use as Daily Love Dose.
In our first encounter, you appeared like a devil but I found your heart innocent and clean like an angle. Within no time you came closer to me friend like family and occupied a special and dearest place in my heart. A peaceful smiling face that assures a complete beauty inside out, you own. You have been blessed by a soul who has sipped a cocktail of comic, maturity, inside seriousness and understanding. Your heart and mind is well decorated with fairness and egalitarianism that attracts my affections and expressions of it. I don’t know what to say, what I feel when I see you. The simplest word I can use that I feel inside happiness. Years back I stopped writing because I could not get a stimulator to write for. But know when I see you I get a motive to write on and on. You are a motive for my pen to start running on paper again. Thanks for being a good friend. Be as you are. I want to write more and can ink thousands of pages to describe your dreamed personality but today let me stop here.
PS: Once my teacher called me and said, “Oh boy! God has just blessed you to master the words. You will be able to amaze the world with words if you want and if you continue writing the way you write and express true feelings. But remember one thing, If you will write the truth this blessing will be multiplied but if you will write a lie one day this blessing will be taken back”.
Oh my Lord! Please forgive me for my first lie I wrote above. Oh my true teacher, the real mentor of my life I beg apology from you too as I owe that mistake now you warned me not to do. I’ll not repeat the same.
PS 2: I wrote this when everyone was writing his/her confessions about someone from their circle. My mind was in fun mood so started with serious confession and ended with sarcastic way. . .